My Affair Recovery Program
"Your affair-shattered marriage can likely be repaired."
Are you reeling from the devastation of an extramarital affair?
My Affair Recovery Program can help you heal.
If your partner has had the affair...
You may be asking yourself:
If you've had the affair….
You may be:
You're not alone.
Infidelity is the most common reason that couples from all across the country come to me for my Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensives.
They come to participate in a highly effective Affair Recovery Program that I have developed over the past 30 years. Interventions used in this program have helped hundreds of couples save their marriages from infidelity.
You may think that your marriage can't possibly survive the affair. But very likely, it can survive… and even thrive. My Affair Recovery Program can help you and your partner get past the affair and become closer than ever.
With my Affair Recovery Program, there is hope for your marriage.
Why do you need my Affair Recovery Program?
Nothing is more threatening to a marriage than an extramarital affair. Each year, thousands of affair-stricken couples break up needlessly, because they don't get the right help.
My Affair Recovery Program is carefully structured to accomplish two things.
First, it can help you avoid making costly mistakes that can delay or even derail the healing process.
Second, it can help you make sure that you cover all the steps of affair recovery in the right order and in the right way so that you really do heal.
You may think that you can recover from an affair on your own, but trust me on this. Your marriage has a much greater chance of staying together if you get the right help.
This is how my Affair Recovery Program works.
Over the past 30 years, I have discovered that when an affair has occurred, a couple must move through seven stages of recovery if they are to heal. These seven stages are the basis of my Affair Recovery Program.
On your Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensive, I'll work privately with just the two of you for two to four days, combining a number of sessions close together so that you'll make rapid progress toward recovery.
Here are the seven stages of affair recovery that you must move through in order to heal.
1. Managing the Immediate Crisis
2. Clarifying What Happened
3. Healing the Wounded Partner
4. Healing the Involved partner
5. Understanding Why it Happened
6. Repairing the Broken Bond
7. Moving Forward
Why do this program in the context of a marriage counseling weekend intensive?
My affair recovery program is especially effective in a weekend intensive format.
On your Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensive, you'll get the concentrated, unhurried, and uninterrupted time you need to make rapid and substantial progress.
You'll go deeper faster and you'll go farther than you could in the same number of sessions spread out weekly over months.
What's reasonable for you to expect?
It's important for you to be realistic about your expectations for my Affair Recovery Program on your Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensive.
Of course, it would not be reasonable to assume that you will necessarily complete all seven stages of affair recovery in one weekend. Although this could happen, it's more realistic to expect that you might move through four or more of the seven stages.
On your two to four-day Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensive I'll guide you through as many stages as is possible for you in the time we have. Very likely, this will be sufficient to pull you back from the brink, get you through the worst of your crisis, and take you well down the road to recovery.
Here's what will happen after your weekend intensive is over.
Naturally, you'll need to move through whatever stages remain. Also, it's possible that you'll need to recycle through one or more of the previous stages. Therefore, I'll help to arrange for any aftercare you might need.
If you are from the Boulder area, this can be with me in the form of weekly or twice weekly marriage therapy sessions. If you're from outside our area, you can return for a second weekend intensive or you can see a therapist close to home who I can help you find.
Whichever of these arrangements you choose for your aftercare, I'll keep in touch with you by email and phone.
The cutting-edge therapy approach I'll use to help you is 75% effective.
As I guide you through your affair recovery, I'll primarily use a state-of-the-art approach to marriage counseling called Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, or EFT. Research studies show that with EFT, 75% of distressed couples recover and another 15% improve significantly.
I was the first therapist in our seven state Rocky Mountain Region to become fully trained and certified in EFT, so I've had more experience using this approach than any other therapist in our part of the country.
EFT is ideally suited for affair recovery work and there's every reason to believe that it is even more potent in a weekend intensive format than in weekly couple therapy.
Why choose me?
Here's why couples from all across the country choose me to help them recover from affairs.
I'm an affair recovery specialist with more than 30 years experience and a national reputation for pulling distressed marriages back from the brink.
My practice is devoted entirely to solving couple problems and is one of the few in the country that offers marriagea therapy weekend intensives.
In addition, I'm licensed both as a psychologist and as a marriage and family therapist.
Yes, there really is hope for your relationship!
Your affair-shattered marriage can likely be repaired. My Affair Recovery Program can help you pick up the pieces and put them back together again.
That may seem impossible to you right now, but take it from the many affair-stricken couples I have assisted. It truly is possible. Your marriage really can be made whole again.
Book your Colorado Marriage Counseling Weekend Intensive now and benefit from
my highly effective Affair Recovery Program. Call me at:
303-545-9828
If you have questions, ask for a complimentary phone consultation.
When you call, I'll help you determine which will best meet your needs: a two, three, or four-day weekend intensive.
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Read two articles I have written about recovering from affairs:
Jay S. Lindsay, Ph.D.
303-545-9828
Colorado Marriage Counseling Intensives
357 S. McCaslin Boulevard, Louisville, Colorado 80027